Planning for difficult Life Transitions

This morning I saw a snippet of an email which was sent to my fellow Adviser colleague looking for an Advisory service stating the following concerns.

“If I am not there tomorrow, would you assist my better-half with the following?

  1. Work with my company to complete all the formalities related to the settlement of Provident Fund, Superannuation, Gratuity, Term Life Insurance and any other applicable benefits.
  2. Work with the Insurers to get the necessary paperwork done in a timely fashion for smooth settlement of my Life Insurance policies?
  3. Dispose of my assets abroad, pay applicable taxes and transfer it in spouse’s name
  4. Identify assets which are not in spouse’s knowledge and ensure a smooth transfer of those assets in his/her name
  5. Consolidate bank accounts and change all pay in and pay-outs from a single bank account
  6. Assist spouse in the disposal of hard to manage assets/properties
  7. Simplify the investment options matching spouse’s risk profile ensuring regular cash flow as per his/her needs
  8. Assist spouse in the amicable distribution of assets among our heirs
  9. Connect spouse with a trustworthy auditor for regular filing of taxes
  10. If the spouse needs the services of other professionals (e.g. Lawyer), connect his/her with the right person
  11. Be available to the spouse for any guidance and support in future

This got me thinking. While most of us are thinking about putting a financial plan in place, how many of us have thought about how smooth the transition will be for our better-halves in our absence. I believe we have not given enough thought and if we have, there is no good solution out there.

I was trying to recollect that as a Financial Adviser what have I done to alleviate some of these concerns? One thing which comes to my mind is encouraging all my clients to bring their better-halves in the engagement discussion from day one. Till date, I have limited success with approximately 20% of my clients bringing their spouses in the discussion. The importance of bringing a spouse to the same level of knowledge in the context of family finance cannot be overemphasized. I do include the creation of Will as a mandatory component of the financial solution for my client but it addresses only one of the needs mentioned above.

I know that these are one-off solutions and cannot replace a comprehensive solution and give peace of mind to an individual. While I am working on a good solution for the same, I would request you to be cognizant of this need and plan for the same. If you have been my client ever, please do let your better-half know that in difficult times they can reach out to me for help irrespective of the validity of the contract. I will try my best.

Once a client, Always a client

The writer is a SEBI Registered Adviser and Founder of FinMyn (https://finmyn.com). He provides Fee-Only Financial Planning and Investment Advisory services. If you want to know more about him, click on https://finmyn.com/about/.

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